Elissa Cousland (Iconic)
A human noble who became a Grey Warden after his family was slaughtered.
LN Human Starborn (The Tower) Warrior 19 (???) 2
He was the second of a noble family when his entire family was slaughtered. Taken prisoner, he joined up with the Grey Wardens, and leads expeditions into the Deep Roads.
Romance: She ends up with Ser Gilmore
Death: Dies fighting against a Dragon Age Dragon